Sunday, September 26, 2010

A Tribute to my Aunt Lillie

Jenny (my cousin) called me on Saturday afternoon and was crying. I knew even before she told me, that her Mother (my Aunt Lillie) had passed away.  I was not completely shocked, as she had been in the hospital for nine weeks after open heart surgery.  But, I cried along with Jenny, because my heart went out to her and her family left behind.  Aunt Lillie had been struggling with numerous health issues since her surgery.  She was suffering so much! I am so happy for her to finally be with her parents (my Grandparents) and my Mother! What a wonderful reunion that must have been! In the past six years we have lost Granddaddy Wilkerson (2004), Grandmother Wilkerson (2008), my Mother (2009), and now my Aunt Lillie (2010).  My Aunt Breta is the only one left of the Ben and Lillie Wilkerson family.
I want to let my cousins, Kaye, Ben and Jenny know how much I love them and I am here for them.  As I have been through this, I know how hard it will be.  You will miss your Mother every day for the rest of your mortal life, but with time your grief will get better. I pray the Lord will bless you and your Dad with comfort and peace!
Lillie Deaton Wilkerson Compton was the oldest of three girls born to Benjamin and Lillie Wilkerson.  She was my Mother's oldest sister by four years. She was a beautiful and petite lady and I have many fond memories of her.  She is the one responsible for getting my parents together.  She has told me many times that she thought of me as one of her own because she helped with me when I was a baby when she and my Mother lived across the street from one another. I have good memories of coming to Utah and staying at her house and playing with my cousins.  After my Mother passed away, I talked with my Aunt Lillie many times.  She was such a comfort to me and I am so thankful for her and her love! I will miss her but I know she is not suffering anymore and now she is so happy! I love you Aunt Lillie and I look forward to seeing you again!!

This is a picture given to my Mother, from Aunt Lillie. I think it was her senior year in high school.
After Grandmother Wilkerson's funeral. Cynthia Wilkerson Shaw, Lillie Wilkerson Compton, Breta Wilkerson Sorenson.
Lillie Wilkerson Compton, Breta Wilkerson Sorenson, Cynthia Wilkerson Shaw, Lillie and Benjamin Wilkerson


Wildfire in Herriman!

On the way home from California, my husband called and told me that there was a fire on the hill where we live in Herriman, Utah.  At first, he did not seem too concerned, but he called me later and told me that it was moving very fast and that we might have to evacuate! I told him to start loading the car with my big container of negatives and pictures, my Mother's bins of pictures and genealogy and anything else he thought was important. He also knelt down with the girls and offered a prayer.
The original plan was for Mike to meet me at my Dad's house and pick me up, but since we did not know if we were going to evacuate, my Dad drove me home.  I was so anxious and worried and just wanted to get home to my family! I could tell that my Dad was worried also. As we drove over the point of the mountain and into Salt Lake County, we could see the fire.  It was a sight to behold!! My Dad and I could not believe how bad it was! We got even more worried! Then Mike called and told me that I might not be able to get home because of the barricades. So many were evacuating and the police had areas blocked off to keep people from coming in. There was major traffic, and it took us a long time to get to the barricade. When we got there, a police officer told us that we could not go any further! My Dad got really upset and raised his his voice to the officer.  He told him that I had just come back from California and was trying to get to my family. The officer said that was too bad and we had to turn around.  I called Mike and he directed to us to a little known back road to get to my home.  It worked! I was so thankful and relieved to get to my family! My girls were so happy to see me! They had both been crying and were very upset about the fire! I am so thankful for my Dad for bringing me home and the love and concern he showed me!
It ended up that the winds shifted and we only had a voluntary evacuation. Some members in my ward that lived up on the hill, had a mandatory evacuation as the fire came only 150 yards from their homes! We ended up staying home, and stayed in our house because of the smoke and ash.  Only three homes were destroyed by the fire, instead of the 50-100 that they had predicted.  The Governor said it was a miracle, and I truly believe it was.  Prayers were answered and the Lord was watching out for our small community. Mike has told me that he truly thought that we might end up losing our home, but he felt peaceful after the prayer he offered with my girls. What a homecoming it was!!
I just want to thank all of my family and friends who called the next day to see if we were okay.  Thank you to my Dad and Faye, my cousin Jenny, my Mother and Father in law, and my Sister (Cindy) and Brother (Kevin) in law for offering us a place to stay if we had to evacuate, and any help they could give us.  The next day (Monday) I received a lot of calls from concerned family and friends. My Dad called me several times that week and I am truly grateful for his love and support! I also received a call from one of my cousins (Ruth Shaw) that I haven't heard from for a long time, and it was so good to hear from her!  There are many others and I am thankful for all the love and support that we have!!
I did not take any pictures, so I downloaded these from the internet:

Our Church


The fire from across the valley

California and Mary's Wedding

My sisters and I took a quick trip to California to attend our cousin, Mary Sorenson's wedding.  It was so good to see my Aunt Breta and California cousins!! Mary was a breathtaking bride! I am so happy for Mary and Patrick! The sealing in the Los Angeles Temple was very special and spiritual! I know my Mother would have tried to go to the wedding if she had been alive. I am so happy that we were able to go and represent the Wilkerson side of the family.
We also went to Disneyland and the Halloween decoration was up.  I loved Space Mountain with the ghost, but my favorite was the Haunted Mansion Holiday!

Amy, Debbie and Bonnie at Disneyland

Patrick and Mary Mulroney, Breta and Nile Sorenson
Olivia Sorenson and Mary Sorenson Mulroney
The Happy Couple! Mary and Patrick Mulroney